Pat (right) and Lois Murphy. Lois was my grandmother Dot's first cousin, which would be Mom's first cousin once removed. Pat and Lois were pretty regular fixtures at our home on Solomon Rd. when Thanksgiving and Christmas rolled around. When I was riding around in Dothan with Dot, she would also take me to "Pat and Lois' house," just a few blocks from the old Sears Roebuck store.