This was a fun, go-to motivational book I read in the '90s. If you're wanting to think out of the box, this is a good one. The excerpt above is one I bookmarked!
Benjamin Franklin is also quoted a lot in Jump Start Your Brain. Franklin had started a Junto club as a means to generate ideas and gain knowledge. When I was living in Thailand, I thought a lot about starting a Junto group or a Men's group, where some of my expat friends and I could meet regularly for this purpose. But it only remained an idea!
More excerpts I recorded from Jump Start Your Bain in the mid '90s:
The Courage to Face Fear
Most everyone wants to live on the edge. Maybe the feeling is deep down, but it’s
there. Most everyone would like to be
out front, the very best. But the only
way to know for sure you’re on the edge is to slip over it. You can’t itch your way to it and peek
over. You have to step out front and
fall a few times. Success doesn’t happen
without failure.
Do not labor under the assumption that the safe way is to do
nothing. Standing still is not a
realistic option. You can’t afford to
maintain the status quo.
It’s as risky to maintain the status quo as it is to reach
for the new and bold. In the first case,
you can get run over. In the second, you
have a chance to swing for the fence.
The only way to a get a significantly different result is to
do something significantly different.
High 5 of Fears
- FEAR of being laughed
The fear of ridicule causes us to build walls between
ourselves and the world. It prevents us
from asking questions so won’t appear foolish.
It keeps us from taking on new and different pursuits because we might
fall on our faces. It discourages us
from reaching out and revealing our true selves because we might be
rejected. It ties our hands, clamps our
mouths shut, and closes our minds.
Being laughed at is a sign of potential genius. Think of Franklin in a thunderstorm, the Wright
brothers on the beach at Kitty Hawk , Edison with his light bulbs, Ted Turner with his Cable
News Network.
- FEAR of losing what we have
The people in the middle are trying to coast. They often play not to lose instead of
playing to win. They are the ostriches
of the human race. They create elaborate
justifications for their lack of action and forward motion. The result is disillusionment. Which leads to twisting in the wind, which in
turn leads to certain death.
- Fear of rejection
The fear of rejection grows stronger as we become
adults. Instead of speaking our minds,
we become conditioned to sit on them.
After a while, we stop trying.
Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already
mastered, you will never grow.
Finding the courage means you believe in what you’re doing
and that you are secure in your ability to go do something else, that you’re
not afraid to take it to the monster.
Finding the courage means you’re not afraid of getting kicked out,
knowing you’d land on your feet if you did.
- FEAR
of the unknown
Many of us lack initial courage because we think we need to
have every step choreographed before we embark on the adventure. We want a detailed road map with a clearly
focused beginning, middle, and final destination, along with a synopsis of all
the roadside tests and comfort stations.
Sorry. It doesn’t work that way. America ’s westward migration is an
example.
If you want to be great, you must learn to live with
uncertainty. You have to have faith in
your ability to adapt and react.
Ignorance of the future is not a sign of stupidity – it’s part of the
human condition.
- FEAR of exposure
It’s is one of the most crippling forms of dread, the fear
that a deep-seated insecurity will be dragged out into the light of day. “I’m not (smart, creative, tall,
good-looking, fill in the blank) enough.”
Identifying your fears is the first step to freeing yourself
from them.
High 5 of Courage
- Look to teammates
Your spouse, for example.
If you don’t have a mutually supportive relationship, get the
relationship fixed. Never, ever set sail
on a grand adventure without the support of your spouse. This person must be a portrait of faith and
support. Anything short of it will
deflate your oomph, drain your energy, and puncture your balloon.
- Taking action
Fear is often a mirage arising from your own
uncertainties. Take action. Any action is better than standing
still. In most cases, if you challenge your
fear through action, you’ll find it’s not nearly as formidable as you thought.
- Covering your bets
Entrepreneurs are not daredevils. They don’t take long shots. Rather, they reduce fear by covering their
bets.
Figure out fallback positions in the event the initial plan
falls flat.
Be the best. When you
take the high ground and create something of genuine value, you’ll be
strengthened. If an idea is true, if
it’s not of dubious value, you’ll be more apt to have the courage to see it
through. The best ideas are those that
bring out the idealist in you.
- Replaying Success
Visualize previous wins
Recall the Great Ones – Let a hero be your guide
- Burst the Worst
What is the worst that could happen? Think about it, write it down, articulate it.
How bad could it get? Then deal with it.
Don’t fear fear. Make
it your friend. It prevents
complacency. It will make you reach
inside yourself and stretch your potential.
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