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Friday, May 8, 2009

Red Cigars


On our trip to Russia in 2007,  I made a couple of unique purchases.  One was a Joseph Stalin ashtray. Another purchase was some Cuban cigars.  Stalin is obviously one of history's most notorious figures and recognized names.  Some call him a tyrant and a brutal dictator.  Others speak very highly of his prominence in leading the Red Army to victory against the Nazis in World War II. As with much of history, myth becomes fact and facts get altered.  In no way am I endorsing Joseph or whitewashing the very well-documented travesties he orchestrated.  I am simply wanting to point out the complexities involved in examining any historical figure.  If a guy is on our side ...well, he's grand.  If he's on the opposing side, he's a demon. What's unique about Stalin is that he was our friend during WWII and his country, whom we later claimed was an evil empire, was one of our dear allies when the world's back was against the wall.  I say, let's take a puff on a good cigar and think about that a bit.  Another thing we can do is tune into programs like this, which give us more insight into the history and how complex it is in unraveling.  As Napoleon said  (or did he?) - by the way, when counting bodies piled high, there's been no greater murderer in history than Napoleon - "What is history but a fabled agreed upon?"

Here's an e-mail I sent to my brother Mark in May 2005.  I had just completed reading the book Stalin: The Court of the Red Tsar by Simon Sebag Montefiore.

Mark, I think you would enjoy these descriptions of Stalin, especially the ways he cunningly used people.  It's no wonder that people who met him were unconvinced that he was a psychopathic dictator.  Of course, he had some "unworldly" admirable qualities that made his ruthlessness all the more effective.

Stalin was simple and modest.


He was aware of the absurdities of the cult (people worshiped him), intelligent enough to know that the worship of slaves was surely worthless.


Stalin was not altogether ruthless and unmerciful. In fact, his charm put people at ease. He often surprised people with his humor, graciousness and self-effacing manner. These characteristics made him very seductive.


A technical school student was goofing off and threw a dart in an administrative office that hit Stalin portrait right square in the middle. Somehow this got back to Stalin and Stalin simply wrote a personal to the student. He said, "He who hits the target should be praised."


During the early stages of the Battle for Stalingrad in WWII, a Russian General made a grave miscalculation that allowed his regiment to be encircled and slaughtered by Germen forces. He was sent to Stalin expecting the worst. Stalin told him, "You know, in WWII, after our army fell into German encirclement the general was court-martialed by the Tsar and hanged." But Stalin forgave him and sent him back to the front.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Whitewater Rafting




Sister Leslie and her family came up for a visit, and this is what we did!  It was Kade's first time whitewater rafting!  We went with the Nantahala Outdoor Center (NOC).

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Raw Oysters


Mark Espy enjoying an oyster feast last weekend at Hunt's in Dothan, AL.
UPDATE (2012) Over the weekend I devoured eight dozen raw oysters at Hunt's Seafood Restaurant and Oyster Bar in Dothan, AL. On Friday, for lunch, I put down two dozen oysters and a delicious chili dog. That evening, I returned and ate three more dozen and another chili dog. Then, on Saturday evening, Kade and I treated my aunt and uncle to dinner at Hunt's. And, true to form, I ordered three more dozen and another chili dog. The oysters were as good as they've ever been. Friday evening, when we were sitting at the oyster bar, I told the shucker that if I got some sort of bacteria and died, he could just tell people that I went out a happy man!



Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Easter SONrise

When Easter SONrise was born.  Dad's hand.

Then when we visited:










Monday, April 27, 2009

Ted Endorses Headland Bank

 
Back in the late '70s and early '80s we used to see Ted Turner at Atlanta Braves baseball games. If I remember correctly, often times we had tickets just a few rows behind Ted and his small entourage on the first base dugout side. Look closely at the photo and you can see that he's wearing a Headland National Bank cap Dad gave him.  Dad took the photo, of course.  Back then, Turner owned the Braves as well as the the Hawks of the NBA. Of course, his biggest claim to fame was starting a 24 hour cable network we proudly know as CNN. On the side, he won the world's largest yachting race, The America's Cup, and started the Goodwill Games that brought together the world for a boycott-free sporting competition. Turner became one of the nation's billionaires and more than earned his reputation as "the mouth of the South." Today he's America's biggest landowner and one of the world's leading philanthropists. I would recommend his recent auto-biography, They Call Me Ted. Here's a recent interview where he plugged his book and talked about his intriguing life.

Friday, April 24, 2009

Marion Graduation Ceremony

Mark Espy of Headland, Alabama
Marion Military Institute
Marion, Alabama


Granddad Major, Dad, Mom

My grandmother Edith stepped in for a photo. Love her glasses!


From left to right:  Dale Ezzell, Mila Espy, Bill Vann, Marilyn Espy, Sid Brannon and Pat Davis
 

Jackie Bridges is holding the umbrella. Granddad Major is wearing the hat. Next to Jackie Bridges are Marilyn and Mila Espy.  Sid Brannon is next to Mila. The young man next to Major and in front of Marilyn is Bill Vann.  Pat Davis is next to him.  Dale Ezzell is sitting next to Pat.


May 1964

 Click here to see Mark Espy, Marion Military Institute Cadet.
 Click here to see Mark Espy playing football at Marion Military Institute.
Click here to see Mark Espy at Marion Military Institute Homecoming.
 Click here to see Dinah Grace at Judson College.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Kade's Parents

I think they were 18-21 years of age...and not dating at this time.
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Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Kade with Parents




Kade is in the middle!
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Monday, April 20, 2009

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Marion Institute Homecoming

These are images of homecoming weekend, for two years, at Marion Military Institute (Marion, AL), where my father, Mark Espy, went on a football scholarship for two years before transferring to Auburn University.  While Dad was at Marion, Mom was at the all women's college, Judson, also in Marion. 

Mark Espy


L-R: Dad, Mom, Victor Allen Grace and Dorothy (Mom's parents), Major Watt Espy, Sr. (my grandfather), Marilyn (Espy) McClendon and Mila (Espy) Woods (my aunts). Behind the camera was Major's wife, Edith (Vann) Espy (my grandmother).

Mom, second from right

 Mark Espy & Dinah Grace







And then 1963


Click here to see Mark Espy, Marion Institute Cadet. 
 Click here to see Mark Espy playing football at Marion Institute.
Click here to see Mark Espy's graduation from Marion Institute. 
 Click here to see Dinah Grace at Judson College.